Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

John M. Gottman

This is a nonfiction relationship guide by psychologist John Gottman and his wife Julie Schwartz Gottman, drawing on decades of research into what makes couples thrive. It structures eight themed 'dates' covering topics like trust, conflict, sex, money, and family, each paired with guided conversation prompts meant to deepen understanding between partners. The book blends case studies from real couples with practical exercises rather than telling a narrative story.